From the album Choosin' Texas - Single
This is not a song about losing him to another woman. It's about losing to a place he never actually left. She competed with Tennessee's mountains and Memphis blues, but Texas was always going to win because it's not geography, it's identity.
Just when I thought I got him to fall in love with Tennessee / I shoulda known better than to take him back to Abilene
She frames the relationship as her trying to make him love a place, not her. The mistake was not bringing him home, it was thinking home could be redefined.
She's from Texas, I can tell by the way / He's two steppin' 'round the room
Texas becomes a woman without ever being named as one. The pronouns do all the work, turning a state into a rival she can see but can't fight.
He always loved Amarillo By Morning / I shoulda taken that as a warning
The clue was always there in what songs made him feel something. She just chose not to read it as evidence until it was too late.
When I'm eastbound and down and I can't help but cry / 'Cause I-40 gets lonelier with every mile
The road back to Tennessee becomes the loneliest drive because it's admitting defeat. Every mile east is a mile further from what she wanted him to want.
Just when I thought I got him to fall in love with Tennessee
The song circles back to the opening line but now it lands different. She never had a chance because she was asking him to betray himself, not just leave Texas.
The smartest move in the song is making Texas both a place and a person without ever clarifying which. It lets the whole thing stay ambiguous enough that you're not sure if there's actually another woman or if she just lost to homesickness. Either way, she's drinking Jack alone.