From the album Full Circle
This is a song about asking the universe to override someone else's will. Tom Misch frames it as romantic longing, but every plea to the moon reveals he wants cosmic intervention because her actual choice isn't working for him. He never asks how to understand her or reach her authentically. He asks how to change her.
Can you change her heart? / Can you change her mind?
He opens with two requests to alter her internal state, not his own. The word 'change' does all the work here. He is not asking how to become someone she would choose. He is asking the moon to make her choose differently.
Can you show me how? / Show me how to touch her heart
This sounds gentler, like he wants to genuinely reach her. But 'touch her heart' sits right next to all the demands to change her mind and move her like the tide. The song never decides if he wants connection or control.
Can you move a dream / Like you move the tide?
Dreams are internal. Tides are external forces. Conflating them means he sees her feelings as something that can be manipulated from the outside, like a natural phenomenon he has no part in creating or destroying.
(Red moon)
No resolution. No answer. Just the same celestial plea on loop, which is maybe the most honest part of the song. He is stuck asking the same question because the real answer is that he cannot make her feel something she does not feel.
The song ends where it started, with the red moon and no answers. Tom Misch would probably be surprised to learn that asking celestial bodies to change someone's mind nine different ways reveals he does not actually want her choice. He wants her compliance. The music is gorgeous. The longing is real. But the ask underneath is not romantic. It is about wanting her without her having to want him back.