From the album Your Favorite Toy
This is not grief that someone survived when others died. This is rage that they get to be happy while the narrator is still stuck in whatever happened. The song sounds like mourning but it's actually about being left behind by someone who escaped the same disaster and moved on.
You know you should be dead / But you're alive instead
The word 'should' does all the work here. Not 'I'm glad you're alive' or 'how did you survive' but you SHOULD be dead. The narrator thinks this person surviving breaks some kind of rule.
A memory that I had prayed I'd finally lost / And you live happily ever after
The narrator claims to want this memory gone while tracking this person closely enough to know they're doing well. That's not trying to forget. That's surveillance dressed up as grief.
You know you should be gone / You're not the only one
This is the only time the narrator acknowledges other people died. The crime isn't that this person lived. It's that they're not the ONLY one who lived, and yet they're the one who gets happiness.
I heard your voice today and then I stopped to cry / I had to ask myself, why? Oh, why?
The narrator doesn't know why they're crying. That 'why' isn't rhetorical. They genuinely can't tell if this is sadness or anger, which means it's probably both and they don't want to admit the anger part.
I saw your face today, I swore I'd seen a ghost
'Swore' instead of 'thought' makes it more certain, more visceral. By the end the narrator is deeper in the haunting, not moving past it. The repetition isn't building to resolution. It's getting stuck.
The song ends by repeating 'Of all people, you survived' three times with no resolution, no shift in perspective. That's the point. The narrator is locked in this loop because they can't admit what they actually feel. Saying 'I'm angry you're happy' would mean confronting why they're not.