From the album Around the Well (Bonus Track Version)
This song maps how a woman exists in three emotional tenses. Yesterday gets her stuck in family, tomorrow gets you vague promises she will not keep, but today is the only time she actually shows up for you.
Talk of yesterday / And she will show her brothers / Photographed in callous clothes
Asking about her past pulls her into family snapshots, but those clothes are callous. She remembers people who were rough with her or who she sees through tougher eyes now.
But say today / And she will kiss your face / And maybe forget
Today is the only tense where she makes physical contact, but even that comes with maybe. She could kiss you or she could just let the past go. You get presence, not promises.
Talk of yesterday / Like bargain shoe strings / She will kick the car and find her friends
Yesterday is cheap nostalgia now, flimsy enough to snap. She reacts by turning away from you, back toward people who knew her before.
Say tomorrow / And then she'll describe / Some old communion cups and someone's coat
Her version of the future is not actually the future. It is random objects from church basements and borrowed clothes, things that feel secondhand before they even happen.
But say today / And she may look your way / And lead you home
The second today is softer than the first. She downgrades from a kiss to a look, but the payoff is bigger. She might actually take you somewhere real.
You get her full attention exactly once, in the present tense, and even then she might just forget. But that flicker of now is still more than her past or future will give you.