From the album KILL THE GHOST
This is about someone who has convinced themselves leaving was growth, then immediately admits they still want to reshape the person they left. The narrator claims they've moved on but spends the entire song explaining why the other person needs to change, which proves they haven't moved on at all. 'Easy to love' is code for 'easy for me to control.'
I don't feel the same / Back when I was younger, I was taking all the blame
The narrator opens by claiming emotional distance, then immediately walks it back by explaining the old dynamic in present-tense detail. If you truly don't feel the same, you don't still have furniture metaphors ready to go.
Aimlessly arranging all the furniture to cover up the holes
This line names the core pattern: the narrator spent the relationship performing damage control instead of addressing what was broken. The furniture imagery makes it domestic and claustrophobic, like they were constantly redecorating around structural rot.
I've grown so much since I've been gone / And I know how this comes across
The narrator announces growth, then immediately hedges with 'I know how this comes across,' which means they know this sounds like the opposite of growth. The self-awareness makes it worse because they say it anyway.
It's not that I hate you / I just wanna change you / Into somebody else
This might be the most honest thing in the song. The narrator frames wanting to fundamentally alter another person as the reasonable middle ground between love and hate. That framing is unhinged, but they genuinely believe it's fair.
That you've never been easy to love
The word 'never' is doing too much work here. It erases any good that existed and rewrites the entire history as the other person's failure. The narrator needs this person to have always been the problem so the desire to change them feels justified instead of controlling.
The most cutting part is how reasonable the narrator thinks they sound. They believe announcing 'I want to change you' is honesty, maybe even kindness, because at least they're not pretending anymore. But wanting someone to become someone else is just hate with better PR. The song ends without resolution because the narrator still hasn't figured out that the problem was never whether this person was easy to love. It was whether they were capable of loving anyone who wasn't exactly what they needed.