From the album Oh yeah?
Lacy opens claiming he can't fall in love, then immediately gets aroused thinking about holding hands. The contradiction is the point. The thing he's begging to 'make stop' isn't desire or loneliness, it's the loop between wanting someone and needing to escape the second he gets too close. By the interlude he's diagnosed himself ('non-confront, avoidant, lonely coward') but still can't stay in anyone's world, including his own.
I can't seem to fall in love, it's bad luck / Careful how you spend your time, it adds up
He frames inability to connect as unlucky, not his doing. Then immediately warns himself about wasting time, as if he's watching himself run out the clock. The advice doesn't land because he's already decided the problem is external.
My dick is gettin' hard again / At the thought of you and me holdin' hands
Not sex. Hand-holding. The intimacy of being seen in public with someone is what gets him. Then he wants to leave before the party ends, which means before anything can actually happen.
I truly think if there was ever a time to let it out / It would be now / Let down your guard and be honest enough to let it out / I'm in your world
He coaches himself through vulnerability in real time, like he's narrating his own therapy homework. Then claims 'I'm in your world' as proof he's doing it, but the song ends with him needing to leave that world because it's 'too much being here.'
Life's a bitch and then you live again / Non-confront, avoidant, lonely coward
He names the exact pattern he's stuck in. The 'live again' line suggests he's been through this cycle before and knows he'll repeat it. Calling himself a coward doesn't change the behavior, it just makes him feel worse about doing it anyway.
If I ever did you wrong / Just know I was goin' through my own shit, wasn't really about you / It's always just about me
This sounds like accountability but functions as an exit. Saying 'it's always just about me' gives him permission to keep doing it. The laugh after tells you he knows this is a cop-out but he's going to use it anyway.
The 'make it stop' he's begging for is the want itself. Not heartbreak, not loneliness, but the fact that he keeps wanting people he knows he'll leave. By the time he's saying 'I gotta get the fuck out of here,' he's not talking to the audience. He's talking to the person he just told he needed like a stomach. The loop doesn't resolve because resolution would mean staying.